There are many possible reasons why a woman might not want to spend time with you that have nothing to do with whether she likes you or if you have attractive qualities about you in general. Here are some examples: - Perhaps she really is too busy to spend time with you (for example, with work, dealing with a major life stress, or some other type of trauma)
- Maybe she is somewhat introverted, and prefers to socialize with only her closest friends
- She already has a boyfriend
- Perhaps she has had a slew of bad dates and really is taking a break from men for now.
- Maybe she perceives you to have little in common with her (generally, women tend to be more attracted to men with whom they share common interests or who she perceives has higher value than her)
- Maybe she doesn't even know that you are interested in spending time with her
Perhaps you have noticed how all of these factors have more to do with her than they do with you. Just because one woman seems uninterested in dating you, does not mean that other women will feel the same way.What if a woman really doesn't like me? You need to understand that it is impossible for every woman to like you. The very things that will make you attractive or interesting to one woman will in turn make you less attractive or interesting to different woman. It isn't any fun when we are attracted to a woman and she doesn't feel that some attraction to you. The important point to remember is that even if you are rejected by a particular woman, the experience alone tells you very little about whether you will be rejected by a different woman. It also says little about you, and whether you are likeable, interesting, or attractive. Even the most successful, attractive and well known men among us experience rejection from time to time. |
